Random questions in my head...

How exactly do I tell my husband that he has gotten so fat it's not attractive anymore? How do I tell him he has no stamina and I'm bored of our no foreplay 15 minute sex that I only get once a week at most? How do I tell the sweet loving man that is doing so much to fix our broken relationship that I need so much more than he is giving me?

I don't know how to tell him. I asked him to quit smoking and I've asked him to come workout but he won't. He dosn't care about my wants or needs in the bed room and he is so exausted trying to have sex that he would rather jack off than fuck. I tried being nice about it and nagging him won't make it better. He refuses to even help out around the house like he said he would. And god forbid I ask him to do anything without him copping an attitude.

He changes his mind about everything and that includes me and our relationship. It is so hard to remain happy in a relationship that I am getting so little out of.

Admittedly it has gotten better but I can see it backtracking again and it was not supposed to. It is all about remaining focused and working toward a goal but can the man who changes his mind about everything do that?

I dont know the answer, I wish I did.

Much love, 

Miss Sinister