Saturday, December 21, 2013

Christmas

I'm not having very Christmassy thoughts. I am thinking about how my marriage will end. It bit that he is threatening to end it, it's that he only loves me when he is drunk.

We haven't had sex in more than a week. It's hard on me because he dosn't seem to have me on his list of priorities. I mean to say that I know I am on it I am just at the very bottom.  

And I wish I wasn't. I don't have to be at the top. I just want to be anywhere but the bottom.

I really just want my needs to be looked at my wants to be cared for. But instead I am called needy for wanting to have sex more than once a week. I'm needy for wanting my back rubbed or to be kissed goodnight. 

Seriously fuck everything. I'm not needy I just want someone to show that they care about me. If that's more than he can do shouldn't I leave? It's not asking a lot to have someone tell me they love me when I cook and clean and take care of him. When I go out of my way to tell him I love you every day. I do so much for him and all I get is a kiss goodbye as he leaves me. 

I'm sick of it. So beyond sick of it I can not even tell you. I just want to feel loved and appreciated. He told me one night when he was drunk that he loved me and loved everything I do for him but I get nothing in return. Seems freaking fair don't it?

I'm going to start crying now and I don't want to be a baby so I guess I will go to bed. 

Goodnight no one. I wish my husband loved me more than anything in the world. Like I do for him. Since I can can't have that I guess I can pray for him to make changes. Although then I am sure he will find someone new who will make him happy.

At least then I can just kill myself and make it all go away right?

Fair skies and flat seas,
SM

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